We establish goal for important things we wish to obtain in life, such as:
Let me put this all there, not too many people go into a marriage thinking this isn't going to work.
If we could ask a couple who's been marriage for an extended period of time, you know 40, 50, 60s years or more; their secret or insight for a successful marriage. They would probably have similar stories as well their level of commitment to a long marriage or until death does us part.
We must shut all exits; having one way in without any other doors or windows to get out or escape.
What should be our goal for a successful marriage - UNTIL DEATH!